英语访谈:95%的思维被圈层决定:你交往谁,就成为谁
今天我们分享一段来自于博恩·崔西(Brian Tracy)是美国演说家、企业家、教育家的一段采访,这段采访中,他对于一个人的成长变化的原因做出了非常深刻的分析。
New Words:
lazy /ˈleɪzi/:adj. 懒惰的
shortcut /ˈʃɔːrtkʌt/:n. 捷径;近路
successful /səkˈsesfl/:adj. 成功的
repeatedly /rɪˈpiːtɪdli/:adv. 反复地;一再
habit /ˈhæbɪt/:n. 习惯
surrounded /səˈraʊndɪd/:v. 包围(surround 的过去式和过去分词)
determined /dɪˈtɜːrmɪnd/:v. 决定(determine 的过去分词);被动含义为“由……决定”
associate /əˈsoʊsieɪt/:v. 交往;联系
regular /ˈreɡjələr/:adj. 定期的;经常的
socialize /ˈsoʊʃəlaɪz/:v. 社交;交际
ambition /æmˈbɪʃn/:n. 雄心;抱负
complain /kəmˈpleɪn/:v. 抱怨;诉苦
So most people are in the habit of looking for easy ways to get the things they want.
所以大多数人习惯于寻找简单的办法来得到自己想要的东西。
And they’re surrounded by people who think the same way.
而且他们被想法相同的人包围着。
You know, as much as ninety five percent of your thinking is determined by the people that you associate with on a regular basis.
你知道,你的思维多达95%是由你经常交往的人决定的。
If you associate with people who don't work hard, don't learn, socialize after work, then you become like them, you think like them, you talk like them, you dress like them, you marry them.
如果你和不努力工作、不学习、下班后只社交的人交往,那么你就会变得像他们,像他们一样思考,像他们一样说话,像他们一样穿着,也会娶嫁像他们那样的人。
and so you're married to someone who also has no ambition, and you raise children.
于是你和同样没有抱负的人结婚,并养育孩子。
And your children have no ambition, just go to work and complain about your work.
而你的孩子也没有抱负,只是去上班,并抱怨你的工作。
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