Do you feel like it's all on you, you are responsible for your healing and moving on after the betrayal in your marriage?
Do you wonder whether loving him again automatically means reconciliation?
Are you confused on what it actually looks like to respond from a place of feeling rooted and grounded in the love of Christ when all you know right now is pain after the betrayal?
Do you wish for a community of others that simply understand because they have been or currently are where you are at?
YOU'LL WALK AWAY WITH...
- The full picture behind the crown series and that walking it out takes others to walk alongside you
- Clarity that loving your husband doesn't automatically mean reconciliation and why that mirrors how God loves too
- Why isolation is the most dangerous place to process betrayal, even though it feels the safest
- An invitation to keep doing this work in community, together, at a live workshop!
This is the finale of the five-week CROWN series.
Today we wrap it all up:
Our unshakable identity in Christ and true authority and choice that comes with it, and what walking it out really entails and most importantly how community is the thing that will really excel the healing journey around the picture that started it all: a woman wearing both a crown and an apron, from 1 Peter 5:5.
Even though we learn to serve and lay down our lives for each other once we are established in our true identity in Christ, loving your husband doesn't automatically mean reconciliation.
We get to follow the same pattern God shows in His own love: desiring reconciliation without demanding it or compromising His standards.
RESOURCES AND LINKS MENTIONED:
***JOIN THE HEART RESET WORKSHOP on October 6th at 5PM EST! ***
📖 1 Peter 5:5 "clothe yourselves with humility" (the servant's apron picture in the Greek)
📖 Romans 12:2 "be transformed by the renewing of your mind"
🎙️ Episodes 56–64: the full CROWN series
💌 Subscribe to the Heart Work Love Letter
🔜 Join the Heart Work Healing Circle
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CONNECT WITH JULIA AND NEXT STEPS
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Next Steps:
- ***JOIN THE HEART RESET AFTER BETRAYAL WORKSHOP***
- Name one person or space you'll bring this ongoing work to, instead of carrying it alone
- Catch up on Episode 56 if you're new to the series
This podcast is for informational and encouragement purposes only and is not a substitute for professional therapy or counseling. If you are in crisis please reach out to a licensed mental health professional.
