Your body has been trying to tell you something. In this episode, Susanna Brisk, sexual intuition coach and author, joins us to explore how to tune into your yes, no, and hell yes. We talk about intuition vs. anxiety, ditching performative sex for present sex, and why orgasms should not be the only goal. Plus manifesting your person, fantasies as self-discovery, sex at every age, and why STI testing and the HPV vaccine matter. It's flirty, funny, and just a little bit wrong in the best way.
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Jump to the Good Stuff:
07:03 – What a "sexual intuitive" actually is
09:36 – How patriarchy and capitalism keep women small
11:06 – How to restart shut-down intuition
13:46 – Live energy read + conjuring the man downstairs
16:41 – Relationship ambivalence and the "deservingness" question
26:16 – Fantasies, erotica, and why we lack the language
31:35 – Ageism, sex in your 90s, and the STI/HPV education gap
37:35 – Intuition vs. anxiety: "Can you be turned on and scared?"
45:04 – Performative sex, porn, and the "correct pussy" myth
49:29 – Great sex without orgasm, defining pleasure, and sex as jazz
Pleasure Highlights:
Your intuition is a skill you can rebuild.
You're the expert on you.
Your body is the tiebreaker between intuition and anxiety.
Fantasy is information, not a confession.
Orgasm can be a goal, but it shouldn't be the only one.
Connect with Susanna:
Enhance your self-awareness by acknowledging and understanding your behavior patterns, and foster a deeper connection with your inner self. Get the Unleashing My Power: A Women's Empowerment and Gratitude Journal to reclaim your power through daily gratitude. Learn more HERE.
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Email: JordanDnelle@VaginasVulvasandVibrators.com
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