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Managing the Mental Load with Madison Fisher | 5 Kids & Multiple Businesses

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If you've ever called yourself the unorganized one, the scattered one, the Type B one.. you're going to relate to this episode!

Madison Fisher came on the pod calling herself Type B. By the rapid-fire at the end, we've learned she's a closet Type A trying to hit a bar she has no systems to reach.

What We Cover

→ Why "Type B" is often the label a Type A woman puts on when she doesn't have systems

→ The Zeigarnik Effect, explained with the waitress-and-the-check story

→ Why the planning session you did on paper ended up in the trash the next day

→ The 1 to 4am nocturnal planning hour almost every overwhelmed woman knows

→ Open loops, why they drain you, what actually closes them

→ The two biggest causes of procrastination (perfectionism + overwhelm = freeze)

→ The "I feel bossy" block that keeps women from setting clear delegation expectations

→ Why your husband will never see the tabs you have in your brain

→ The one thing Madison is doing tonight, and the one thing you should try too

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Lorissa Violet

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Alex Payetta

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Madison Fisher

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Timestamps

0:00 Meet Madison Fisher

3:00 Five kids, cheer, dance, brand deals, Wittles

8:00 Why Madison cleans before the cleaning lady shows up

14:00 The Type B reveal and what it actually is

18:00 Open loops, working memory, and why Madison can't sleep

25:00 The planning session Madison and Kyler did once and never looked at again

30:00 The Four Tendencies rabbit hole

34:00 Lorissa's screenshot-to-sister calendar hack

40:00 The review routine that matters more than the system itself

46:00 House manager versus more childcare

54:00 Why Madison feels "bossy" setting expectations

1:02:00 The roles and responsibilities conversation with Kyler

1:10:00 Zoloft and where the anxiety actually lives

1:15:00 Rapid fire and the closet Type A confession

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