For Episode 69, because apparently the universe has a sense of humour , Lillie Brown is back.
This time, there is no proper interview.
Instead, Kyla and Lillie have a bowl full of questionable cannabis claims, terrible sex advice and listener questions, and they're answering them the way they would if they were sitting around at home together.
Does cannabis make sex better? Does higher THC mean better sex? Should good sex always be spontaneous? If you need lube, does it mean you're not turned on? And if the chemistry is right, should you really have to talk about sex?
Somewhere along the way, they get into responsive desire, communication, pressure, pleasure, foreplay, arousal, favourite cultivars for sex and why women absolutely do not exist to perform pleasure for somebody else.
And because this is Canna Curious, Kyla's recent experiment with coffee enemas also makes an appearance. Lillie has questions. Many questions.
In this episode
Kyla and Lillie talk about:
● Cannabis and sexual pleasure
● Whether cannabis really gets you “out of your head and into your body”
● Why THC percentage doesn't tell you how an experience will feel
● Cannabis, touch and sensitivity
● Why orgasms don't have to be the entire point
● Planned sex vs spontaneous sex
● Lube and the ridiculous idea that needing it means you're not aroused
● Physical arousal vs actually wanting sex
● Responsive desire
● Why communication still matters when the chemistry is great
● Sex becoming an expectation in relationships
● Women's desire and the myth that women simply have lower sex drives
● The conditions that can help desire and arousal emerge
● Kyla's adventures in coffee enemas
● The current state of Kyla's dating life
● The one thing they'd delete from what women have been taught about pleasure
Wellness Field Notes
This week, Kyla has gone further into the weird end of wellness: coffee enemas.
Lillie only discovered this shortly before recording and has approximately one thousand questions.
Things deteriorate rapidly from there.
Dating
The Spanish man is still technically in the picture but Kyla is wondering whether expecting an actual invitation and an actual plan is really asking too much.
Lillie's answer is fairly unequivocal.
The question we finish on
If we could delete one thing women were taught about pleasure, what would go first?
Lillie's answer: the idea that pleasure is something women are supposed to do for their partner.
Find Lillie
Find Lillie Brown on Instagram at @sexwithlillie and visit lilliebrown.com for her workshops, events and mailing list.
About Canna Curious
Canna Curious is a podcast exploring cannabis, women's health, pleasure, wellness and the conversations we're often not having openly enough.
Hosted by Kyla de Clifford.
This episode is proudly brought to you by Azure Health.
A note: This episode is a conversation between friends and includes personal experiences and opinions. It isn't medical or professional advice.
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