Why do online arguments seem to go nowhere?
You start with the hope of having a thoughtful discussion. Minutes later, you're frustrated, the other person is even more entrenched, and neither of you has changed your mind.
In this episode, Dr. Jeremy Pollack explains why that's not simply a failure of communication, it's the way our brains respond to online interaction. Drawing on neuroscience, he explores how text strips away tone, facial expressions, body language, and other essential cues our brains rely on to interpret meaning. Without them, we naturally fill in the blanks with our own assumptions, often interpreting neutral messages as hostile or dismissive.
Dr. Pollack also explores how anonymity, public audiences, and social media dynamics make productive conflict resolution even more difficult, creating environments that often reward winning over understanding.
You'll learn:
- Why our brains misinterpret written communication
- How online environments amplify conflict
- Why public debates make changing minds even harder
- A simple rule for deciding when a difficult conversation should happen offline instead
This episode is based on one of the seven neuroscience-based principles from Jeremy's book, Wired for Peace: Using 7 Neuroscience-Based Principles to Resolve Conflicts, offering practical insights you can use in your work, relationships, and everyday conversations.
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🎧 Listen now to learn how building conflict competency can transform tension into trust, alignment, and stronger performance.
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