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I had a call with a private coaching client the other day, and she had no libido. We've been here before. We worked together for years, and she was back at a point with no desire. One thing I had to impress upon her: you do not need to want sex to start wanting sex.
That's the part no one is talking to us high-achieving women about, and it keeps us stuck, and it keeps us having less sex.
Your desire isn't broken, it's buried. When we are running businesses, managing homes, single parenting, managing everyone else's emotions, our nervous system doesn't have the bandwidth for pleasure. Our pleasure centers are turned off. This isn't a willpower problem.
This is a biological reality.
I'm sharing 5 ways to increase desire when you have none, the exact things I share with my private clients.
- Remove the brake before you add the accelerator.
- Reclaim alone time.
- Use a 15-minute timer.
- Feed your brain what it recognizes as desire.
- Skin-on-skin contact without the expectation of sex.
We cannot access desire in a relationship where we do not feel safe, and this is the part that most sex education, intimacy coaching, and therapy skip entirely. Desire is not a light switch. It's a temperature, and we can turn up the heat.
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