Loren from Los Angeles discusses writing All Sorrows Can Be Born, a family memoir she ghostwrote about her husband Dana (born Noriyuki) who was sent from Japan to the U.S. as a toddler and later learned the truth about his father’s death 57 years after it happened.

The episode explores themes of secrecy, cultural shame, adoption, cross‑continental reunion, and the long ripple effects of suicide on families. Lauren shares how the revelation came through a letter and how the family processed that discovery while honoring resilience and memory.

Listeners hear about the book’s creation, the author’s trips to Japan to interview family members, and where to find All Sorrows Can Be Born.

Please look after yourself listening to this episode. You can stop and start when you are able to listen. Here are some helpline numbers - please reach out if you need help.

 

SUICIDE GRIEF SUPPORT CIC:

Instagram

Facebook

Linked In

www.suicidegriefsupport.com

EMDR Suicide Grief Retreats

 

FROM THIS EPISODE:

Loren's Website

All Sorrows can be Born on Amazon

Loren on LinkedIn

Loren on FB

Loren on X

 

FIND EMERGENCY HELP:

Within the UK: 

Samaritans - Free on 116 123 

Suicide&Co - Free on 0800 054 8400 Mon-Friday 9am-9pm 

Samaritans Facing The Future Support for Survivors

Within the US: 

Suicide Hotline: Free on 1-800-273-8255 or text 742741 

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