After 10 years of coaching separated men, four specific things I used to recommend, I now recommend differently — or not at all. I'm breaking down where I stand today on no contact, ultimatums, moving out, and marriage counseling, plus a single question I now use for most separation decisions.

🔗 Full show notes + free PDF one-sheet: https://husbandhelphaven.com/episode-36 
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Timestamps:

  • 0:00 — Why I'm doing an episode like this
  • 1:24 — A strong mind keeps training (Tim Keller story)
  • 3:06 — The mission hasn't changed, the implementation has
  • 3:58 — Shift #1: No contact — almost never
  • 7:09 — Shift #2: Ultimatums — almost never 
  • 10:42 — Shift #3: Moving out — stay in the home
  • 13:00 — Shift #4: Marriage counseling — cautiously open
  • 19:24 — The unifying thread: demonstrating change is possible
  • 21:44 — Where to start + Husband Help Group

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