Episode Highlights With Christine

  • Over-functioning and why capable, efficient people end up doing everything, but how to break the cycle
  • This can look like competence but be connected to control and safety starting in childhood
  • How can we actually break the pattern of over-functioning 
  • “If I stop doing all this, bad things will happen” and the myth of that belief
  • The question of "will I still be valued if I don’t do everything for everyone?"
  • For true change to happen, there is usually chaos in between
  • It’s never too late to have a great childhood
  • Nervous system tips for re-patterning the over-functioning 
  • How have you set yourself up so that people can’t help you?
  • Ways to help our kids develop a healthy foundation without over-functioning 
  • We are usually subconsciously attracted to people who remind us of the patterns of our family of origin
  • The female nervous system needs to feel safe and can feel this from the masculine through consistency and presence 
  • What happens to a relationship when women are overfunctioning 
  • Hypervigilance looks like being too “in the masculine” and protecting yourself from relationships
  • Women can try to create safety through control

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