Appearances Matter More Than We Want to Admit - The Realistic Romantic | Lyssna här

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Pretending physical attraction doesn't matter? That's just another form of romantic delusion.

In this episode of The Realistic Romantic, Drew breaks down the difference between the features you were born with and the appearance you choose to present, why intentionality can make you more attractive, and how to care about appearance without becoming shallow.

Plus, we're talking about pheromone-maxxing, the internet trend where some men are skipping showers because they think their natural scent will make them more attractive.

Chapters

00:00 Appearances Matter More Than We Want to Admit

02:03 Pheromone-Maxxing

06:01 Is It Shallow to Care About Appearance?

09:17 Features vs Appearance

11:47 Appearance Shows Intentionality

14:55 The Appearance Audit

19:57 Concluding Thoughts on Appearance

References

🧼 Pheromone-Maxxing | Forbes

🧬 The Search for Human Pheromones | PubMed

👃 Human Pheromones and Sexual Attraction | PubMed