Financial uncertainty can add another layer of fear and vulnerability when a relationship is fragile, ending, or already over. You may be worried about where you will live, how you will support yourself, what assets you have—or whether important financial information has been hidden from you.
In this episode, Jane speaks with Genene Wilson about moving from financial vulnerability and confusion towards greater clarity, confidence and empowerment.
Genene draws on her experience as a former accountant and licensed financial planner, as well as her current work as a business and financial coach, entrepreneur and author. Together, Jane and Genene explore why many women feel disconnected from the structure of their family finances, and why gaining financial knowledge matters even when you have trusted your partner to take care of that area.
They discuss:
• Why knowing your current financial position is an essential first step
• How fear, shame and past criticism can lead to financial avoidance
• The importance of gathering documents, accessing accounts and noticing financial red flags
• Why women sometimes give away too much just to bring a painful separation to an end
• How to prepare for mediation or financial negotiations
• The value of understanding your best-case, worst-case and middle-ground outcomes
• Who you may need on your professional support team
• How to choose advisers who are qualified, values-aligned and able to communicate clearly
• Why financial empowerment is about dignity, choice and long-term security—not simply dollars and cents
Genene also shares stories of women who rebuilt their financial confidence after divorce, loss and even homelessness. Her central encouragement is simple: there is no need to solve everything at once. Focus on the next step you can take today.
Please note that the information in this episode is general education and does not constitute personal financial, accounting or legal advice. Seek appropriately licensed professional advice for your individual circumstances.
Resources
Genene Wilson
Website: genenewilson.com
Live Well: Your Guide to Navigating Divorce by Genene Wilson
Quiet Wisdom
Website: quietwisdom.com.au
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