Some women can tell you what everyone around them needs and go blank when somebody asks what they want. In Note 78, Yaya talks about how years of "I'm fine with whatever" quietly turn into feeling stuck, and how to find the woman you were before everyone needed something from you.
The episode ends with three questions to ask yourself and two small practices you can start this week.
Inside this episode:
How "I'm fine with whatever" starts as kindness and ends in a blank when somebody asks what you want
Where the habit comes from, including being praised for being the easy one
Why being needed can become your only proof that you matter
The three costs: not knowing what you like, a tiredness sleep does not fix, and feeling stuck
Why guilt shows up when you start saying what you want, and why it fades with practice
Three questions for meeting the woman you were before everyone needed something from you
A twenty-minute practice and a one-real-answer-a-day practice to start this week
If you feel stuck and want company while you work this out, join the Get Unstuck Challenge inside Slay Society. It is a 7-day challenge for the woman who feels stuck, and your first week is free. Here's the link to join: https://www.skool.com/theconfidentlyherco-4672. Save this Note for the woman who needs it.
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