Note 77 starts with a question many women avoid: if a friend skipped plans without a text, you would say something that day, so why does it take two days to draft a message when a partner does the same thing? Yaya defines the bare minimum, explains how asking slides into begging, and shares the story of a client named Renee (name and details changed) who rewrote the same text four times. You will leave with a three-step way to ask once, watch what happens, and decide without sending reminders.
Inside this episode:
What the bare minimum includes in a relationship: replies, plans kept, and the truth
The friend test, and why we hand partners allowances we would never give a friend
What begging sounds like in real life, from the gentle reminder text to planning every date yourself
The difference between asking once and begging
Where women learn to audition for love, especially high achievers
Renee’s story, and what changed when she stopped managing his effort
A three-step way to ask, watch, and decide, plus what to do with the time you get back
If you saw yourself in Renee, The Confidently Her Method is Yaya’s 16-week one-on-one coaching program for building the confidence underneath the pattern, so holding your standard stops feeling like a fight with yourself. Here’s the link to learn more about The Confidently Her Method: https://calendly.com/confidentlyherco/application
This is an episode to save for the next time you catch yourself drafting a message for the third time. Journal on the reflective questions at the end, and send it to the friend who tells you the truth.
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