Note 74: Girl, You're Not Getting a Sign. Go Build the Proof

Confidence doesn't show up before you act. It shows up after, built out of proof you collect by doing the scary thing anyway. 

In this episode, Yaya calls out the advice she will never teach her clients, fake it till you make it, and replaces it with something more honest: acting despite the fear instead of performing a feeling you don't have. She tells the real story behind Slay Society, an idea she sat on for three years, and breaks down exactly what waiting to feel ready actually costs you.

Inside this episode:

• Why "fake it till you make it" is advice Yaya refuses to teach, and what to do instead

• The real story of the three years she waited to launch Slay Society, and why timing was never the actual problem

• Why confidence is evidence you build, not a feeling you wait around for

• What waiting to feel ready is actually costing you, in business and everywhere else

• A practical way to start collecting your own proof this week

If you're reading this and can relate to being scared but still having goals that you want to reach, take the 7-day Do It Scared Challenge inside Slay Society. Every day, you'll take one small action that brings you closer to your goal; join here.