What Matters Most in Parenting? I Asked My Adult Sons.

In this episode of Transformed by Birth, I'm joined by two very special guests: my sons, Kaden and Rumiah.

Now in their mid-twenties and building lives of their own, they reflect on what it was like growing up in our family, from outdoor adventures and family rituals to conflict resolution, sibling relationships, and the values that shaped them.

Together, we explore what children remember long after childhood ends, how family culture influences identity, and the surprising ways parenting continues to ripple through adulthood. This heartfelt conversation offers a rare opportunity to hear parenting reflected back through the eyes of the people who experienced it firsthand (tissues are highly recommended).