High school dating is genuinely its own universe 😭💗 and in this episode, KJ and I are breaking down EVERYTHING I wish someone had explained to me when I was younger.
We’re talking about what high school boys are actually thinking, how to tell if a guy likes you, the different types of guys you’ll meet, first relationships, first kisses, communication, intimacy, peer pressure, trust, and all of the confusing little situations that feel like the end of the world when you’re experiencing them for the first time.
We also categorize the different types of high school boys — from the egomaniacs I would personally tell you to RUN from, to the shy kings, to my personal pick for an actual relationship: the nonchalant chiller guys. 😭
But more than anything, I want this episode to remind you that you do not have to rush your high school experience. You don't need a boyfriend just because your friends have one. You don't have to kiss someone because everyone else already has. And you NEVER have to become intimate with someone because you feel behind or pressured.
Your first experiences are YOURS. There is no timeline you need to follow.
We also talk about how important communication and trust are when you do get into a relationship, how to recognize when someone genuinely likes you, and why understanding your own boundaries is way more important than trying to impress a teenage boy who probably has approximately three thoughts bouncing around his head at any given moment. 💀
High school love can be exciting, dramatic, confusing, heartbreaking and SO fun all at once. Cherish it, learn from it, and please don't waste your entire high school experience trying to get one random boy to choose you.
Choose yourself first. 🎀
CHAPTERS
00:00 — Introduction + Album Update
04:55 — Dating in High School: What We Wish We Knew
14:52 — Understanding How High School Boys Think
25:03 — The Different Types of High School Boys
34:49 — Who Should You Actually Date?
35:18 — Intimacy, Trust & Communication
41:42 — Peer Pressure & Feeling “Behind”
45:29 — How to Tell if He Actually Likes You
48:01 — High School Dating: Would You Rather?
58:27 — Looking Back at Our High School Experiences
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