Have you ever looked back at a relationship and wondered, How did I not see the red flags sooner? Narcissism and gaslighting aren’t always obvious, and some of the most damaging behaviors can be the easiest to explain away.
Dr. Ramani Durvasula, one of the world’s leading experts on narcissism and toxic relationships, joins Tamsen Fadal to break down how narcissistic behavior actually shows up in relationships, why it can be so difficult to recognize, and how repeated manipulation can slowly make someone stop trusting their own instincts.
One of the most listened-to conversations on The Tamsen Show, this episode goes deep on the subtle red flags of narcissism, gaslighting, emotional manipulation, dating after divorce, and why even smart, successful, independent women can find themselves trapped in unhealthy relationships. It also explores how perimenopause, menopause, aging, sex, and changes in confidence can be weaponized by a narcissistic partner.
In this episode:
- The narcissistic red flags that are easiest to miss
- What gaslighting actually looks and feels like
- Why narcissistic relationships can be so difficult to leave
- The warning signs to watch for when dating
- How menopause and aging can be weaponized in relationships
- Why couples therapy can sometimes make a narcissistic dynamic even more confusing
For anyone who has ever been made to feel too sensitive, too emotional, too difficult, or unsure of their own reality, this is a conversation worth hearing.
If you liked this conversation, check this out: The 5 Signs You're Dating a Narcissist (I Missed Every One)
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