Narcissistic, emotionally immature, and otherwise toxic parents love to say their adult child is the toxic one or that it's them walking on eggshells around their child. But despite this being a common talking point in dysfunctional family systems, it's not exactly accurate as to what's happening underneath the surface.
In this episode we discuss:
- Why adult children and parents aren’t peers, even when you’re both adults
- The difference between a parent walking on eggshells and a child walking on eggshells, and why they aren’t apples to apples
- What’s often underneath your parent saying, “I have to walk on eggshells around you”
- How context gets stripped out of these family dynamics, and why the nuance matters so much for adult children of narcissistic parents
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