What happens when you start unraveling from who you learned you had to be…and suddenly the woman you’ve been for years doesn’t fit anymore?
That in-between can feel confusing as hell.
You know you can’t go back to being who you were, but you’re still discovering the woman underneath the expectations, roles, beliefs, and ways you learned to make yourself acceptable to everyone else.
In Part Four of the Coming Home to Yourself series, we’re talking about why we often confuse familiarity with identity, why doing something differently can feel so wrong at first, and the grief that can come with outgrowing a version of yourself—even when you WANT to grow.
We’re also talking about one of the most important lessons I’ve learned in my own journey:
Unfamiliar and wrong are not the same thing.
You’re allowed to change your mind. You’re allowed to want different things. You’re allowed to discover parts of yourself you’ve never given yourself permission to explore before.
And honoring the woman you’ve been does not require you to keep being her.
This week, I want you to pay attention every time you hear yourself say, “That’s just not who I am.”
Then ask yourself:
Is it actually not who I am…or is it just not who I’ve allowed myself to be?
Because the hardest part of becoming more yourself isn’t always figuring out who you are.
Sometimes it’s having the courage to accept her when you finally meet her. 💛
You don’t have to abandon yourself in order to belong.
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