Ep 188. The Unexpected Gift of Trauma and Pathway to Post-Traumatic Growth, with Dr. Edith Shiro - Behind The Smile with Ash Butterss | Lyssna här

My guest this week is Dr. Edith Shiro, a clinical psychologist and author who has spent more than three decades working with trauma survivors, refugees, and communities navigating profound adversity. She is also the granddaughter of Holocaust survivors and Syrian refugees, and that lived experience sits at the heart of everything she does.

In this conversation, Dr. Shiro and Ash explore what trauma really means, how it shows up in perfectionism, people pleasing, dissociation, and addiction, and why so many people move through life not realising they are carrying wounds at all.

Dr. Shiro also touches on her five-stage framework for post-traumatic growth, including the science behind why spirituality changes the brain and how individuals can transform their pain into purpose.

We will all experience trauma in some form. This conversation is about what you choose to do with it, and whether you allow it to define you.

Episode chapters:

00:22 Introducing Dr. Edith Shiro

02:03 What Trauma Really Means

03:35 Trauma Responses: Fight, Flight, Freeze and Fawn

06:32 Minimizing Trauma: When You Don't Think You Qualify

07:56 Micro Traumas and How They Accumulate Over Time

10:22 Dissociation: The Protective Tool That Keeps Us Stuck

13:25 The Invisible Armor and the Emptiness Underneath

17:41 The Universal Wounds: Shame, Rejection, and Not Belonging

20:53 The Unexpected Gift of Trauma: The Book and the Title

23:06 Why Two People Can Experience the Same Trauma So Differently