You've talked it through. You've journaled. You've analyzed every conversation, every text, every thing that went wrong. You understand exactly what happened — and you still feel terrible. Here's the hard truth: you can't think your way out of this one.
This season walks through the book 10-Week Divorce Recovery: The Proven Step-by-Step Roadmap, one chapter at a time — the same method that's helped people let go and move on for more than 40 years.
In this episode, meet Julie — smart, capable, used to solving any problem by reasoning it through — who spent months trying to think her way past a marriage that kept ending and restarting, with nothing to show for it but exhaustion. Kevin Van Liere unpacks why insight alone keeps you stuck, the real difference between talk therapy and structured recovery — and why the two work best together, not against each other — and how Julie's disentanglement score climbed from 25 to 75 in ten weeks. Not because she got smarter. Because she finally had a path.
If you've been circling the same questions for months, this is the one to start with.
Find out where you actually are. Take the free Divorce Recovery Scorecard — 30 questions, five minutes, instant results. It's the same baseline we use to measure real progress. You'll hear scores come up throughout this season, so get yours and follow along: Rebuilders.net/drs
Join us at Phoenix Live. Free, live — real people at every stage of divorce recovery, doing the work together. Come just to listen the first time. Save your spot: Rebuilders.net/phoenix-live
And when you're ready to walk through the full process start to finish, it comes three ways — online from anywhere, in person with a local group, or as a week-long immersion retreat.
If this episode helped, follow the show so the next chapter finds you — and if someone you love is going through this too, send it their way.
