When a parent cheats, it doesn’t just wound the marriage. It can wound the children too.

For many young people from broken families, infidelity creates a terrifying fear: What if I get cheated on too? Or worse, what if I become the one who cheats?

In this episode, Joey talks with marriage and family therapist Doug Hinderer about how affairs happen, why betrayal damages a child’s ability to trust, and how young people from broken families can avoid repeating their parents’ mistakes.

They discuss:

  • Why affairs often begin long before anything physical happens
  • How infidelity affects children, even years later
  • Why love feels unsafe after betrayal
  • The role of forgiveness in healing from a parent’s affair
  • How to talk about the fear of infidelity in dating or marriage
  • The three habits that help build a faithful, lasting marriage
  • Why you are not doomed to repeat your parents’ story

If you’re afraid of being cheated on, afraid of becoming your parents, or unsure if lasting love is even possible after what you witnessed growing up, this episode is for you.


Restored Resources

It’s Not Your Fault | Restored Book

Happy Marriage for Life | Doug Hinderer

Marriage Unhindered | Relevant Radio

How to Forgive | International Forgiveness Institute

“Impossible” Marriages Redeemed: They Didn’t End the Story in the Middle | Leila Miller

“Impossible” Marriages Redeemed | Amazon


Doug Hinderer’s email

doug@relevantradio.com


Shownotes


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