God, Why Haven’t You Brought Me My Person Yet?

You love God. You’ve built a life. You’ve healed, grown, prayed, dated, deleted the apps, downloaded the bloody apps again — and still you find yourself asking: God, where is my person?

Maybe the years you’ve called “waiting” aren’t dead time at all.

Maybe you’ve outgrown the old, but you haven’t met the new yet.

In this episode, I’m talking about what might actually be happening during those years when love seems nowhere to be found — how healing can make dating harder, why the relationships you once would have chosen may no longer fit, and why your life is not on hold just because your person hasn’t arrived.

Perhaps one day you’ll look back at the years you thought nothing was happening and realise: God was there. You were becoming. And you weren’t standing still at all.

If this episode found you at exactly the right time, send it to someone else who’s waiting for their person too.

And if you want to work with me privately around love, relationships, dating, heartbreak or the patterns you’re ready to leave behind, send me a DM on Instagram or Facebook and tell me a little about what’s going on.

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