Can he change? Yes. But that’s not the question.

The real question is whether he wants to change — and how much of your life you’re prepared to spend waiting to find out.

In this episode, we’re talking about the difference between real, lasting change and the temporary version that appears when someone is scared of losing you. Why potential can keep us stuck for years. Why understanding someone’s wounds doesn’t mean you have to live with the consequences of them. And the one question you need to ask yourself if you’re still waiting for your partner to become the person you know they could be.

Because eventually, you have to stop asking “Can he change?”

And start asking:

“Is he?”

This one might sting a little. But you probably need to hear it.

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