The only thing you can trust, to start the process of trusting the external, is the internal.
That means you.
If you are like 99.9% of women in the world, you’ve been taught since birth to other-esteem. We are constantly on the lookout for gathering our self-esteem through others — how they look at us, how they respond to us, whether they move toward us or away from us.
When we don’t allow ourselves to imagine love coming toward us, we start trying to get it.
Can you feel the difference in the body? Here, it’s just coming toward me — I’m leaning back. Here, I’m trying to get it — I’m leaning forward.
We instinctively look for approval, love, appreciation, desire — all on a subconscious level. And then consciously, we fight it.
Part of you wants to lean forward and grab him. Another part of you remembers being a Siren. And another part feels angry at yourself for needing anything at all.”“So here we are, all of us pushing and pulling at the same time — pushing against our own deep-seated need to receive love from others.
If we truly felt love was always coming toward us, then of course we could trust him automatically.
You are energetically assuming love is coming toward you and letting it land on you.
As soon as you get this into your being — ‘I can’t control everything’ — something softens.
The weather is bigger than you. You cannot control the weather. And when you really feel that, something inside you begins to let go.
You begin to look at everything differently — your dog, your cat, the books in front of you — and feel life itself coming toward you.
Inside Siren Island, you’ll get access to feminine energy tools, relationship coaching, live classes, and ongoing support to help you stop overgiving, stop chasing, and finally feel more secure and magnetic in love.Inside Siren Island, you’ll have access to feminine energy tools, relationship coaching, live classes, and ongoing support to help you stop overgiving, stop chasing, and finally feel more secure and magnetic in love.
Siren Island is here:
https://www.coachrori.com/lp/siren-island-feminine-energy-course-and-community/
Love, Rori
