You might not be falling out of love. You might just be exhausted.

When you can’t sleep, everything gets louder. The resentment. The anxiety. The dishwasher fight that suddenly feels like proof your entire relationship is broken.

I’ve seen this happen again and again: people blame their partner, their marriage, or themselves—when the real saboteur is sleep deprivation.

In this episode, I’m talking with marriage and family therapist and sleep expert Chrissy Lawler about what exhaustion is really doing to your mood, your parenting, and the people you love most.

Listen to learn:

Why exhaustion makes every conflict feel more serious

How poor sleep quietly drains connection and intimacy

The counterintuitive reason to get out of bed when you can’t sleep

How caffeine, alcohol, and nighttime habits sabotage your rest

Why sometimes the healthiest thing you can do is go to bed angry

Simple, evidence-based ways to start sleeping better tonight

Before you decide your relationship is broken, check your sleep. A full night of rest might change the entire conversation.

Xoxo,

Dr. Lisa Marie Bobby

Growing Self

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