Hey kids this is a “how to choose a good partner” video. I think a lot of people date backwards. We meet someone, feel chemistry, get attached, imagine a future together… and THEN start asking whether we’re actually compatible.And by that point, we reallyyyy want the answer to be yes.So I hope this video helps you slow that process down. Figure out what you actually need before someone shows up, separate chemistry from compatibility, observe who they really are over time, and then decide whether the person in front of you actually fits the life you’re trying to build.Because liking someone is not the same thing as being compatible with them. And feeling something quickly does not mean you have to choose quickly.Fall in love. Love is beautiful. Just don’t let attachment make the decision before observation finishes.Feel free to leave a comment because I love to talk! Also taking suggestions for future “how to” videos. Would love suggestions! Go to https://nor3mak.com/ for amazing advice with me :)

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