In this episode, I explore how Self Pleasure ripples into intimacy, sex and relationship with another.

This practice is not about staying in a solo bubble forever. It is about learning the embodied skills intimacy asks of us: presence, honesty, communication, boundaries, attunement, receptivity - and the ability to slow down enough to stay connected to ourselves while opening to another.

I share how my own Self Pleasure practice changed the way I relate, receive touch, express desire and meet intimacy – and what unfolded when I brought this practice into a 21-day experiment with my partner.


In this episode, I explore:

  • Why Self Pleasure is not a substitute for intimacy with others, but a foundation for it
  • How your Self Pleasure practices teaches you the skills to initiate your partner into deeper intimacy
  • What becomes possible when you stop outsourcing your pleasure
  • How solo practice creates deeper honesty, creativity, connection and magic in partnership


Applications for Blossom & Blade, my 13-week eco-somatic sex coaching programme, are now open. The early bird offer closes on 25 August 2026.

If you’re curious to know more, click here to apply: https://www.blossomandblade.com/

Much love,

Luzi

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