In this conversation, I explore the desire so many women have: “I want to be more feminine” - while their body is quietly bracing, performing, protecting or shutting down.
I speak about the deeper longing that sits underneath this desire: I want to stop micro-managing and controlling. I want to overcome the terror in my bones. I want to feel safe. I want to trust Life.
I also share the story of my self-marriage ceremony: the day I made a vow to stop abandoning myself for love, and gave my body a new imprint of trust, devotion and inner union.
In this episode, I talk about:
How trying to be “more feminine” can become another way of abandoning yourself
Why your body’s protection is highly intelligent, and how to create a felt sense of safety when your trust in life was broken
What performed pleasure and performed surrender can cost us
How Self Pleasure becomes a practice of creating and embodying a totally new imprint for love, power and relationships
Why softness needs a container (the blade): clarity, discernment, structure and self-devotion
And if this conversation touches something in you and you’d like to enter the practice more deeply, I’d love to invite you to my free two-part event, Full-Bodied Aliveness.
Together, we'll journey into the darkness of the body - to explore the subtle layers of sensation through devotional touch and come into intimate conversation with the Sacred through your flesh, blood & bones. It all starts with your hands on your skin - to pour love into the parts that you'd rather not feel. Your body has been designed to nourish you and tingle with erotic aliveness - it's time to return to Lovemaking as a regular prayer.
For the full journey, applications for Blossom & Blade, my 13-week eco-somatic sex coaching programme, are now open. The next round begins on 13 October 2026, and the Early Bird price is available until 23 August.
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