What do you do when you have a difficult manager?

Maybe they’re inconsistent, make empty promises, message you at all hours, fill your diary with unnecessary meetings, or make you feel like you’re constantly walking on eggshells.

In this episode, Heather breaks down how to manage up and take back some control when you can’t control the person above you.

You’ll learn how to:

  • Give difficult feedback upwards
  • Set boundaries around your time and actually stick to them
  • Deal with managers who make everything feel urgent
  • Say no to meetings without looking difficult
  • Stop letting your manager’s moods dictate your working day
  • Know when you’ve tried enough and it might be time to leave


Because managing up isn’t about trying to manage your boss. It’s about taking ownership of what you can control, communicating clearly and protecting the boundaries that allow you to do your best work.

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