How to Get Out of a Rut and Make Any Habit Stick

Stuck in a rut and can't make any habit stick? You keep telling yourself Monday will be different. It never is — and by now you've stopped believing your own promises.

In this episode, Kelly breaks down why willpower was never the real problem, and why rebuilding trust in yourself is the actual key to lasting change. Drawing on identity-based habits and her own recent experience — committing to a solo dance performance with five weeks' notice, in the middle of a house move and a mould remediation — Kelly walks through the exact framework for breaking a rut for good: building an identity that genuinely excites you, using commitment to break inertia, and the small daily habits that rebuild self-trust one kept promise at a time.

If you've tried and failed to make a habit stick more times than you can count, this episode gives you a different way in. One habit. One identity. Starting today.

If you want help to get out of a rut and make any habit stick, Kelly offers coaching just for this.

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