🔥 What does a wife owe her husband in marriage when it comes to sex? Everyone can list a husband's obligations: provide, protect, lead. Ask about a wife's obligations and the room goes quiet. In this video I answer it directly, and I talk to both husbands and wives.
💬 This started with an exchange I had on X with Giff Lasta about Christian men, initiation, and who gets the deciding vote on sex in marriage. Teaching men to initiate better is good advice, but it leaves out her side of the deal. If she has no sexual obligations at all, he's just a dancing monkey learning to dance better.
📌 In this video:
📖 What 1 Corinthians 7:3–5 actually says about marital duty and sex, for both husband and wife
⚖️ Why "Paul said it as a concession" gets the passage backwards
🚦 The difference between not being in the mood and not consenting
🎯 Expectations vs. pressure, and what men do that creates pressure
🧀 "Mac and cheese sex," and why showing up when she's not in the mood is a loving act
🙅♂️ Why men turn down sex they could have had
🧠 The story she tells herself about sex, and how it builds or kills a marriage
🛑 When a "no" here and there is normal, and when it becomes a marriage problem
📅 What a reasonable frequency looks like for a healthy marriage
💔 If you're in a sexless or low-sex marriage, if your wife keeps saying no, or if you're a wife who's wondered whether sex is really part of the deal, this one's for you.
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