Has your wife ever gone along with sex when she wasn’t really feeling it, and afterward you thought, “What was the point of that?” 🤔 In this clip from Module 10 of my course, The Smoking Hot Marriage Method, I break down the 5 types of sex that show up in every long-term marriage and why every single one of them counts.
Most men carry around a picture of what sex is “supposed” to look like: both of you equally turned on, equally into it, building to the perfect finish. 🎬 Movies and adult content created that picture, and it’s not real. When your sex life doesn’t match it, you feel like a failure, or you assume your wife isn’t into you. She probably is. Her level of enthusiasm is normal. Your expectations are the problem.
🔥 The 5 Types of Sex in Marriage:
🧀 Mac and Cheese Sex: she’s not really in the mood but goes along with it. Not steak and potatoes, but it keeps you from starving.
⏱️ The Quickie: you’re both eager, you just don’t have much time.
🌹 Love Making: slow, romantic, full eye contact, all about emotional connection.
🐺 Feral Sex: raw, animalistic, “I’ve got to have you now.”
🏠 The Good Old Day to Day: the routine sessions that keep your sex life running.
A healthy sex life is a rotation. The husband who values all five types is the husband who gets a whole lot more of every single one. 💪
✅ Your one move this week: the next time she’s lukewarm, don’t call it off. Take the Mac and Cheese, kiss her afterward, and say “thank you, I really appreciate that.”
💬 Did I miss a type? Tell me in the comments.
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