Divorcing a Narcissist: What You Need to Know with Narc Recovery Specialist Allison Adamovic

If you're divorcing a narcissist—or think you might be—this episode is exactly what you need. In today's episode, I'm sitting down with Allison Adamovic, a licensed marriage and family therapist (LMFT) and narcissistic abuse recovery specialist, for an expert conversation about how to recognize narcissism and protect yourself during divorce.

 Allison brings clinical expertise to help you understand the real difference between typical divorce conflict and actual narcissistic abuse—and what to do about it.

We dive deep into the manipulation tactics narcissists use, why they can't change, and your concrete action plan for divorcing someone with narcissistic personality disorder.

What we cover:

• Clinical signs of narcissism vs. just difficult divorce behavior
• Why narcissists can't change (the science behind brain chemistry and genetics)
• Manipulation tactics explained including word salad, gaslighting, and deflecting
• Breaking free from guilt and confusion that keeps you stuck
• Financial abuse and psychological control patterns to recognize
• Warning signs of escalating abuse and when to get help immediately
• Your concrete action plan for divorcing a narcissist safely
• How to protect yourself emotionally, legally, and financially
• Recovery strategies for healing from narcissistic abuse

Whether you're just starting to recognize the patterns or already deep in a high-conflict divorce with a narcissist, this conversation provides expert clinical guidance on how to protect yourself and move forward.

Want more resources? Check out myblog, grab my free "24 Questions to Ask A Divorce Attorney" guide, or sign up for my free 4-Email Divorce Prep Series for a step-by-step roadmap before you meet with an attorney. 

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The Divorce Planner podcast is for educational purposes only and does not constitute legal or financial advice. Consult qualified professionals about your situation.

Podcast Original Music, Editing, and Mixing by: Benjamin Robinson