A fulfilling sex life isn’t just about chemistry or technique—it’s about feeling comfortable enough to communicate, explore, and be vulnerable with each other. Julie & Yue are joined by licensed psychotherapist and sex therapist Ian Kerner, author of She Comes First, to explore how couples can use sex as an opportunity for deeper connection. From becoming more “cliterate” to expanding our understanding of pleasure beyond intercourse, Ian offers a practical look at creating more satisfying and connected intimacy.
In this episode, you’ll learn:
Why communication is essential to a satisfying sex life
What it means to become more “cliterate”
Why pleasure goes far beyond intercourse
How couples can explore intimacy without pressure
How sexual connection can strengthen emotional intimacy
To learn more about Ian Kerner, visit www.iankerner.com
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