Choosing Marriage (Or Not): Deciding If Marriage Is Right for You w/ Allison Raskin

With marriage rates on the decline, do people still want to get married—and why does it still carry so much emotional and cultural weight? In this episode, Julie & Yue sit down with Allison Raskin, mental health advocate, relationship coach, and author of I Do. I Think?: Conversations About Modern Marriage, to unpack what marriage looks like today, how societal pressures shape our choices, and why committing can feel both deeply personal and overwhelming. She shares her own journey from a broken engagement to marrying her now-husband along with practical guidance on navigating differing timelines, managing fear, and clarifying what you truly want versus what you’ve been told to want.

In this episode, you’ll learn:

 • Why marriage continues to hold emotional and cultural significance today

• How societal expectations influence your decisions about commitment

 • Strategies for navigating differing timelines or desires around marriage

 • How to separate what you truly want from external pressures

 • Ways to approach commitment with clarity, confidence, and intention

To learn more about Allison Raskin, follow her @allisonraskin and visit https://www.allisonraskin.com/

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