I wasn't the rogue. I was the healer. (INFP life lessons)

I was 25, standing outside a club in Nagoya, when a guy from a Yakuza family wanted to kill me. Everyone around me lost it. I was the only calm one.

I tell that story in this video. It's one of 9 things I wish somebody had told me earlier about being an INFP.

The INFP journey is hard. Emotions feel huge, relationships hurt, and it's easy to decide you're the problem. I did. Here's what I'd tell my younger self.

In this video:

0:00 The night in Nagoya

0:27 1. Having emotions isn't a problem

1:51 2. You're not the problem

3:00 3. Find out what character class you're playing

4:21 4. Getting close to people hurts, and it's worth it

5:40 5. Decide, act, then adjust

6:52 6. Your interests share a thread

8:11 7. Whatever you do now won't be forever

9:36 8. Finish the thing

10:59 9. Set the line

12:29 You are part of the solution

If you've ever felt too sensitive, scattered, or stuck as an INFP, you might find something here. Take what fits.

Want to go deeper into how the INFP brain works? Watch my deep dive with Dr. Dario Nardi on introverted feeling, extraverted intuition, and the INFP cognitive functions. Click the video in the corner.

I'm Sherman. I'm a personality type coach and certified hypnotist. I use hypnosis and NLP to help you close the gap between knowing your type and actually changing your behavior.

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