Sis, what if the reason you keep chasing unavailable people has less to do with them—and more to do with the little girl who spent years trying to get her father to choose her?
Maybe you learned early that love had to be earned.
So you became good enough.
Helpful enough.
Successful enough.
Quiet enough.
Strong enough.
Anything to finally feel chosen.
But then you grew up...
and the audition never stopped.
Different man.
Same chase.
Different relationship.
Same need to be chosen.
Different face.
Same wound.
In Episode 95 of Through My Father’s Eyes, we're talking about how father wounds can teach women to chase love, overgive, tolerate inconsistency, fear abandonment, and mistake anxiety for chemistry.
We're also confronting one powerful truth:
Your father's inability to love you the way you needed was never proof that you were unlovable.
You don't have to spend your adulthood trying to earn the love you should have received freely as a child.
It's time to stop asking:
"How do I make them choose me?"
And start asking:
"Is this relationship choosing me too?"
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If this episode speaks to you, DM me:
“NO MORE CHASING.”
Tell me what you're finally done chasing.
And share this episode with one woman who needs to hear:
Sis, you don't have to convince anybody that you're worth loving.
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