What do you do when you're the only one who wants to improve the relationship? Jayson and Ellen explore what happens when one partner starts doing the work and the other does not. They talk about owning your role in relationship neglect, how to invite your partner into growth without forcing them, and when individual work needs to become couples work. They also discuss navigating major life transitions, practical collaboration strategies, and whether AI can actually help solve relationship problems. If you feel like you're carrying the relationship alone, this episode is for you.

Timestamps:

  • 2:30 - Example
  • 7:00 - Owning your role in relationship neglect
  • 12:15 - Invite your partner into what you're learning
  • 20:18 - Individual work vs couple's work
  • 26:30 - Transitional life phases for women
  • 31:30 - Collaboration strategies
  • 43:30 - Using AI to solve relationship problems


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