Many women have already figured out that dieting doesn't work.
Yet even after leaving diets behind, many of us still carry the mindset of diet culture: obsessing over food choices, labeling foods as "good" or "bad," constantly second-guessing our bodies, and chasing the next wellness trend in hopes that it will finally be the answer.
In this week's episode, Michelle sits down with nutritionist, author, and podcast host Laura Heflin to discuss a topic that doesn't get talked about nearly enough: orthorexia—the unhealthy obsession with eating "perfectly" healthy.
Laura shares her deeply personal story of falling into a cycle of over-exercising, under-eating, losing her menstrual cycle, and becoming consumed by the pursuit of health. What began as a desire to feel better slowly turned into a toxic relationship with food, exercise, and body image.
Together, Michelle and Laura explore why so many women remain trapped in diet culture thinking even when they no longer follow formal diets, how social media fuels food confusion, and why learning to trust your body may be one of the most important wellness skills of all.
Laura also shares the 10 Lifestyle Principles that helped her heal her relationship with food and now serve as the foundation of her work helping women create sustainable, realistic wellness habits.
In This Episode You'll Learn:
What orthorexia is and why it often goes unrecognized
The difference between pursuing health and becoming obsessed with health
Signs that healthy habits may be crossing into unhealthy territory
Why diet culture continues to influence women long after they stop dieting
How social media contributes to confusion around food and wellness
The power of intuitive eating and learning to trust your body's signals
Why perfectionism often sabotages long-term health goals
Laura's 10 Lifestyle Principles for creating lasting wellness
How small daily habits create meaningful health transformations
Why food freedom and health can coexist
Laura's 10 Lifestyle Principles:
- Don't start something today you can't do for the rest of your life.
- Embrace the 80/20 lifestyle.
- Become a planner.
- Eat real food.
- Eat small and eat often.
- Stop counting calories.
- Tune into your body.
- Remember: you are what you drink.
- Prioritize sleep.
- Move the way your body wants to move.
If you've ever felt exhausted by wellness rules, confused by conflicting nutrition advice, or trapped in an endless cycle of trying to "get healthy," this conversation will remind you that health doesn't have to be complicated—and that peace, not perfection, may be the real goal.
Connect with Laura Heflin
Laura Heflin is a certified nutritionist, four-time published author, and host of the Live Healthy with Laura Podcast. Through her books, coaching, and podcast, she helps women build sustainable wellness habits, heal their relationship with food, and create healthy lifestyles that last.
Website: livehealthywithlaura.com
Instagram: @livehealthywithlaura
Facebook: Laura Heflin
Podcast: The Live Healthy With Laura Podcast (Apple Podcasts | Spotify)
Check out Laura’s most recent book: Just Jump: And Overthinker’s Guide to Getting Unstuck, Gaining Traction, and Taking Chances (Amazon)
Questions or topic requests? Email Michelle to be part of the conversation!