Why does someone seem emotionally available while dating but become resistant to growth after marriage?
In this episode, we discuss emotional capacity in relationships, attachment patterns, defenses, and the difficult question many women face: Should I help my partner heal, or accept that they may never want the same kind of relationship I do?
We explore why emotional capacity can seem to disappear over time, how hormones and projection shape early attraction, and the difference between a partner's initial capacity and their actual long-term capacity.
Learn:
• Why emotional capacity changes over time
• The #1 predictor of relationship success
• How projection and hormones affect early relationships
• Why defensiveness and shutdown happen
• Communication and acceptance strategies for navigating mismatched growth in marriage
If you've ever wondered whether your partner is struggling, shut down, or simply unwilling to do the work, this episode will help you understand the difference—and what to do next.
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