Everyone got real loud after I posted: “my favorite genre of women is the mom who got hotter after kids instead of disappearing into miserable mom culture.” 😭
And apparently that triggered the internet.
So we’re talking about it.
This episode is for the moms who are tired of pretending motherhood is supposed to feel like losing yourself… your identity… your confidence… your body… your joy… and then calling it “normal.”
Because somewhere along the way society convinced women that being a “good mom” means putting yourself dead last, running on empty, resenting your life, drinking wine every night to cope, and disappearing into survival mode.
Yeah. I’m not buying it anymore.
We get into:
- why people pleasing keeps women stuck in miserable mom culture
- the difference between self-care vs actual self-love
- why putting yourself first DOESN’T make you a bad mom
- how healing your trauma changes your kids’ childhood too
- the energetic + neuroscience side of shifting your self-image after motherhood
- why polarizing content is actually magnetic AF
- the truth about “getting your body back” postpartum
- and the mindset shift that helped pull me out of postpartum resentment
Plus I talk about entering postpartum with baby #2 completely differently this time… and why I’m actually excited instead of terrified.
You still matter after kids.
You still get to feel hot.
You still get to have passions, hobbies, goals, confidence, joy, and a life that feels good.
Motherhood was never supposed to mean abandoning yourself.
Drop miserable mom culture.
Thank you so much for tuning in to this episode of MILF Era! If this episode resonated with you, please leave a review and let me know your thoughts—it helps so much!
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