Dushka Zapata has written 17 books and is one of the most-read writers on Quora. Dan Roam wrote "The Back of the Napkin" and has taught Google, Microsoft, and the U.S. Navy how to think with pictures. For the first time on this show, I have two guests at the same mic - recorded inside my geodesic dome, words on one side, pictures on the other. Together we explore why imagining your future too clearly is actually a form of anxiety, why the fear of drawing is really the fear of your own future, and the practice that helped my 10-year-old draw a horse in under two minutes. Dan also shares a brand-new idea, born live in this conversation: the Palace of the Present Moment. If you've ever felt overwhelmed by the future, this one is for you.
Chapters
00:00 - First time in the dome, first time with two guests
03:15 - How Dan helped my daughter Josefina draw a horse in under two minutes
05:42 - The fear of drawing is the fear of your own future
11:27 - Dushka's antidote to overwhelm (and the Einstein quote you'll steal)
14:00 - Why half of your brain is built for visual thinking
17:17 - Generative AI and why you should draw first, prompt later
20:00 - "Claude is mad at me" - why AI is just a mirror
24:00 - Patience as a minor form of despair disguised as a virtue
26:48 - The annoying bell and the power of the pause
30:00 - The Zen master, the trash over the fence, and a better way to react
32:11 - Drawing your future self
39:09 - Anxiety is too much future
41:00 - What if everything works out?
50:30 - Find silence. Draw a circle. Repeat.
Links Dushka Zapata
How to Be Ferociously Happy (Book)
Dushka on Quora
dushkazapata.com
Links Dan Roam
The Back of the Napkin (Book)
Draw to Win (Book)
Napkin Academy
danroam.com
Links Frederik
Take the Awareness Test – How future-ready is your mindstate?
What's Next Is Now (Book) – Frederik's book on designing your future (HarperCollins)
8-Day Foundation Course – Build your future-ready mindstate
Ask Frederik – AI trained on 20 years of Frederik's work
NEXTletter – One question, two perspectives, one experiment (bi-weekly, free)
Live Events 2026 – See Frederik speak live
The Future Is How Podcast – New episodes every two weeks