This week we're covering Season 3, Episode 12 of Sex and the City — the one where Carrie finally tells Aiden about Big. And honestly? It's a lot.

I'm joined by Idit Sharoni, licensed marriage and family therapist, founder of Relationship Experts, and host of the podcast Relationships Uncomplicated. Idit specialises in infidelity recovery, and she brings a perspective I genuinely wasn't expecting — because the answer to "should you always tell?" is not what you think it is.

We get into:

  • Whether honesty is actually always the best policy in relationships
  • What it means when your partner has no idea the affair was happening — and what that says about connection
  • The difference between "sufferers" and "explorers" after infidelity
  • How to disclose an affair (and what Carrie absolutely got wrong about timing)
  • Why women who cheat often feel more vindicated than men
  • Whether Carrie ever really had a chance of making it work with Aiden
  • What wanting to know every detail is really about — and when it hurts more than it helps

We also cover Miranda's disastrous speed dating lie, Charlotte and Trey's wedding night, and Samantha storming out of Vera Wang. A full episode.

Find Idit:🌐 Website: https://iditsharoni.com/💔 It's Okay To Stay (Infidelity Recovery Program): https://infidelityrecovery.iditsharoni.com/🎙️ Relationships Uncomplicated (Podcast): https://iditsharoni.com/category/podcast/📸 Instagram: @therelationshipexperts📘 Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/iditsharonilmft▶️ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/@Iditsharonicounseling


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