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Two years of the Sex After Kids Podcast! To celebrate, I'm sharing what I hear most often from both higher libido and lower libido partners in my DMs, on enrollment calls and in client sessions, and the surprising gap between what each of you thinks the other wants. (Hint: the most common "win" I hear isn't more sex.)

Then we explore a different kind of question - What if your partner isn't asking you to force yourself to want sex? What if they're asking you to open the box called sexuality that's sitting next to you, and look inside with curiosity instead of fear?

In this episode:

  • What higher libido partners actually say would feel like a win
  • What lower libido partners wish their partners knew
  • Why one partner's box is wide open and the other's is wrapped in barbed wire
  • The five dimensions of human sexuality: biology, intimacy, identity, sensuality and sexualization
  • Why most of us go to the buffet and eat the same thing every single time

Mentioned in this episode:

  • Naomi Wolf, Vagina: A New Biography
  • Sheri Winston, Women's Anatomy of Arousal
  • Charlie Glickman, The Ultimate Guide to Prostate Pleasure
  • My interview with Dan Purcell, verify spelling on the five stages of your sexual relationship
  • My sensuality episode from the Naked Fun Comeback lessons 
  • Last week's episode on why your body has never really been your own


If it’s time to open your sex box maybe for the first time ever, or maybe again, so you can experience sex that feels light, fun and playful again -
book a private Spark Session. Totally free, no obligation, come solo or with your partner. You’ll leave with a customized game plan and we’ll see if working together is the right fit for you.  



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