On this Indigenous Peoples’ Day episode of Messy Liberation, Becky Mollenkamp and Taina Brown start with the “where are you really from?” question and follow it into who gets to look and who gets looked at. Taina, who is Afro-Latina with Taíno roots, explains the difference between race and ethnicity, what separates Latin from Hispanic, and why self-identification is a form of resistance. It’s an intersectional feminist conversation about objectification, colonialism, and letting people name themselves.
In this episode, we get into:
Why “What are you?” is never okay, and how to tell real curiosity from nosiness
Taina’s PT appointment, and a lifetime of being mistaken for Egyptian, Indian, Dominican, and Middle Eastern
“Clarity is kindness”: why a blunt question can be better than a covert one
Intent vs. impact: how treating someone as a puzzle to solve strips their dignity
Becky’s confession about staring at a trans woman in an airport 30 years ago, and what she’d do differently now
Who gets the privilege to look and who becomes the spectacle, from Shane Gillis’s SNL “spandex” joke to the history of slave auctions
Oppositional looking: refusing to look away, and why white women should stare at cops, not at the people they’re harassing
Jordan Peele, Get Out, and horror that doesn’t center whiteness
Latin vs. Hispanic, explained through Brazil, Guyana, Mexico, and Puerto Rico
Race as a social construct that still shapes real lives, plus the “file folder” metaphor for identity, gender, pronouns, and reclaimed language
Timestamps
00:00 – Indigenous Peoples’ Day, Hispanic Heritage Month & Filipino American History Month
02:42 – Being mistaken for everything: growing up racially ambiguous
07:00 – “It’s really none of your business”: lessons from college
11:40 – Objectification, intent vs. impact, and human dignity
17:47 – Shane Gillis, SNL, and who gets to be the object
21:00 – Ways of Seeing, Stuart Hall & oppositional looking
25:01 – Stare at power, not at the oppressed
26:40 – Jordan Peele, Get Out, and horror that doesn’t center whiteness
29:41 – Why travel (or a new neighborhood) can radicalize white folks
36:10 – Race as a social construct, from slavery to ICE sweeps
40:41 – Latin vs. Hispanic: what’s the difference?
47:48 – How perception changes race: New York vs. Florida
49:17 – The Hyphenated Life, file folders & gender as a construct
53:02 – Capitalism and the myth of limited categories
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