"Non-monogamy is just about sex." "It means you love your partner less." "It's inherently unstable." Thorhildur has heard it all, and in this episode she's busting the 7 biggest myths, one by one.
Drawing on her own decade-long journey from monogamy to polyamory, plus years of coaching clients through the same terrain, she unpacks mononormativity: the invisible belief that monogamy is the "correct" default that everything else has to justify itself against. She takes apart the idea that opening up means something is broken, that it's just a phase, that it's for people running from commitment, or that it means no rules and no structure. Along the way, she gets into the post-traumatic growth research behind why hard conversations can actually build deeper trust, and why love, unlike time, isn't something you run out of.
Whether you're curious, skeptical, or somewhere in between, this one's going to challenge what you thought you knew.
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