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You keep asking your partner, "How could you do this to me?" But even when they explain what happened, the question keeps coming back.
Sometimes there's genuinely more information you need. Other times, what sounds like a question might actually be an expression of shock, disgust, or pain. In this video, I explore why that distinction matters, how questions can send your mind searching for answers that don't actually resolve anything, and what both partners can learn from recognizing what's really being expressed.
If you're struggling to move forward after infidelity and want personalized help addressing the deeper patterns keeping you stuck, you can book a free strategy call with me to discuss working together.
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00:00 Why you keep asking "How could you?"
00:16 Is it a genuine question or an expression of pain?
00:42 Why your mind keeps searching for explanations
01:00 What you might actually be trying to say
01:31 How a question mark changes your experience
02:06 Why searching for answers can feel easier than feeling
02:46 Why understanding doesn't make the betrayal okay
03:03 What both partners should consider
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