Her Nudes Were Leaked. Now She Helps Victims Get Justice (ft. Norma Buster)

Sexologist Alexa Andre (@sexwithalexa) gets in bed with Norma Buster, sex positive victims rights advocate, Chief of Staff at CA Goldberg Law, survivor of image-based abuse, and online sex worker, for a raw and nuanced conversation about stalking, leaked intimate images, deepfake abuse, consent, shame, sexuality, healing, OnlyFans, bisexuality, and reclaiming agency after trauma.

Topics Covered:

• Norma Buster’s experience with stalking and image-based abuse
• Why “revenge porn” is an inaccurate and harmful term
• The evolution of image-based sexual abuse laws
• Victim blaming from judges, police, and society
• Trauma, shame, and psychological impact after leaked intimate images
• CA Goldberg Law and victims rights advocacy
• The federal Take It Down Act
• Why intent-to-harm clauses make prosecutions harder
• Free speech debates surrounding image-based abuse laws
• AI deepfakes and nudifying apps
• Deepfake abuse affecting women, minors, and students
• Consent, impact vs intent, and digital privacy
• Supporting friends through stalking or abuse
• Victim vs survivor terminology and trauma identity
• Purity culture and sexual shame
• Bisexual awakening during the pandemic
• Dating couples and exploring non-monogamy
• Threesomes and alternative relationship dynamics
• Healing through sexuality and sex positivity
• Starting an OnlyFans after surviving image-based abuse
• Sex work stigma and online identity
• Reclaiming agency and personal autonomy
• Advice for survivors struggling with shame and harassment

Follow Norma Buster:Instagram: @normabuster_CA Goldberg Law: cagoldberglaw.com

Follow Alexa Andre:Instagram: @sexwithalexa

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